We should need the right attitude to attract our date. Without right attitude we do not attract our date properly and the attract tips are:
- Say Cheese:"A happy attitude is so alluring, yet you'd be shocked by how many women forget to smile when meeting someone new," says Rachel Dinero, Ph.D., director of the psychology program at Cazenovia College in New York. Not that she faults them. It can be tough to be cheery if you've been burned in the past or if the conversation suddenly takes a turn for the tedious. But feeling like a jackass for the few seconds it takes to force a smile may be worth your effort. Research shows that flexing the facial muscles that are required to smile can substantially improve your mood.
- Exude Confidence:A self-assured attitude acts like a giant spotlight, highlighting all of your great qualities. This explains why a recent study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology proved that men find women more attractive when they exude confidence. The good news is that developing a healthy dose of it doesn't require some big, annoying self-improvement project. "Confidence is born when you start thinking of the bigger picture," says Bethany Marshall, Ph.D., author of Deal Breakers: When to Work on a Relationship and When to Walk Away. "If you let your self-esteem hinge on little external factors — he didn't call, no one congratulated you on your promotion — you end up defining yourself based on other people's ever-changing approval. When you have a steady view of yourself, it becomes easier to brush off others' negativity, which can erode your sense of self."
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