Do it Yourself.

Love Couple

Love Couple

You'll do better making the request in a casual encounter face-to-face. Although the scariest method, but is the best approach as it affords you the opportunity to check out the other person's responses through the body language and gestures.

For whatever it takes, do the asking personally and avoid the use of electronic devices like text messaging or even getting someone to do the asking on your behalf.

How To Go From The Friend Zone To The End Zone

Love Couple

Love Couple

First, let's tackle the most likely problem. The most common problem is the person you're interested in looks at you like a brother/sister. That is probably because you listen to their relationship problems and are their personal sponge. You soak up all of their problems, they squeeze you and you drench out what they want to hear. THAT is where you messed up. First of all, NO man should want to listen to a woman about HER relationship problems. That either makes you look brotherly or gay. In fact, she probably looks at you like her gay brother. Women, in your case - you shouldn't want to hear about HIS relationship problems. That is what he has sisters and/or female cousins for. How can they look at you in a sexual manner after you're the ear for their tears?

Now, that you've let them know that your nuts hang (or your nips hang in regard to the ladies) - its time for action. Most importantly, anything that is always available loses value. Stop being so available. When they call, hit 'ignore' and text them back. Whenever you talk to them, either let them know what you've just got finished doing or are about to do. Be fake busy and watch them want your company. Better yet, start hanging out with someone else of your opposite sex. If you can't do that, just say that you are. Have you noticed that a lot of times people don't let you know they're interested in you until they see you with someone else? This is the logic we're using here. Nova knows.

By now, you should have cut down on how much you supply yourself and increased your demand. Now, when you come around - make sure you look and smell your best. You can't make your long awaited return with the aura of a gym sock. No. Step your fresh up. Wear a new outfit and some new scents even if it's only for a visit. When you see them again, feel out the situation. Don't get caught up in idle conversation. Then, LEAVE. Yes. Leave early. It is always better to under stay your welcome than to overstay it. You've just made a whole new impression.

Build a bridge.

Love Couple

Love Couple

By now you really should know the woman's interests and preferred activities. Talk about your intention to look at the gallery exhibition once again. Make it sound awesome, get her excited about it.

Later casually mention that she should join you. When she hesitates, stop her. Get back control by using a little hoop: "Hold on, but you can only come, if you promise to tell the truth about how you like those paintings."

Work on The Similarities

Dating Couple

Dating Couple

Dating

What are the similarities between both that you can work on? First of all, the physical appearance of course. Your physical appearance is the very first thing that catches a person's eyes, the eyes of that special someone. Take note of the type of dressing style he or she likes? How is he or she normally dressed? A trendy and hip? Casual and sporty? Smart casual? Try to dress so, dress in the style he or she would like. Think about it, if you were someone who is very concern with the neatness and cleanliness of your physical appearance, would you like someone who is always so shabbily dressed?

Naturally, a person would tend to enjoy the company of another who generally dresses similar to that of him or herself. Don't you find it so within your usual group of click?

Next would be the hobbies and interest. What sports does he or she like? Does she play the piano? What type of movies does he or she enjoy watching? Does she love animals, dogs? Does he love fishing? What flowers does she like? Hmm... knowing his or her habits will be good too. Where does he or she normally hang out? Does she hate crowded places? How many cubes of sugar she like for her coffee? Does he hate shopping? Well in simple, find out anything possible under the sun about him or her. Not a clue where to start? Friends would be a good source to start with.

Ok guys, now that you know what she likes, it's time to plan for a little nice and enjoyable date with her. It's afterall still a guy's job to ask the girl out, right? Notice I used the word "enjoyable" instead of a nice and "romantic" date? Well, a date involves two persons. To allow the chance for a further development of a relationship, the chance for a next date, you have got to make her enjoy the date, enjoy the time spent with you.

How to Get Yourself A Date

Date Couple

Dating

Date Couple

For Guys, please understand that girls enjoy the process of being pursued. You have got to play this game well. Take things at a step; let the rhythm flow gradually and smoothly. Let her enjoy the process; make her feel that very value that's within herself.

For girls, do note that guys generally like girls who are more gentle and caring. Don't be too fierce scaring the guys away. Likewise, don't always put on that cold swanky look. Guys are generally not very patient creatures. Not matter how beautiful you are, you will eventually just turn them off.

Always take things slowly. Do not just walk straight to her and tell her "I love you, can you please be my girlfriend?" and vice versa for girls. You would most probably just scare him or her off, be patient. Well perhaps starting off with a little simple request for help would be ideal? Ok, I know it may sounds like a very old boring tactics but believe me, it works! At least most of the times...

For example, a girl can take the excuse of learning to play the guitar from the guy. "Hey Rick, you know... I've always dream of learning to play the guitar, I was thinking it would be so cool if you can find some time to teach me?" Well, if the guy has got no bad impression of you, chances are he will say yes. Afterall, it won't really take up much of his time and it's something he himself is interested in.

Become a great conversationalist.

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Yes, anyone can master this. It's about focusing on the other person, deeply listening and offering interesting, upbeat thoughts and topics. With a stranger, keep it simple.

After the first exchange, ask them easy questions about themselves. Not too personal or probing. "So, if you come here a lot to eat, you must live/work nearby." "I've been here a few times, but don't think I've seen you before." Or offer something about yourself.

"I'm a vegetarian and this is the best shop for meatless sandwiches that I have found." You get it - safe, pleasant ways to ask about them, share about you and keep the conversation going. "On nice days like this I often eat in the park down the street- want to join me?"