How To Go From The Friend Zone To The End Zone

Love Couple

Love Couple

First, let's tackle the most likely problem. The most common problem is the person you're interested in looks at you like a brother/sister. That is probably because you listen to their relationship problems and are their personal sponge. You soak up all of their problems, they squeeze you and you drench out what they want to hear. THAT is where you messed up. First of all, NO man should want to listen to a woman about HER relationship problems. That either makes you look brotherly or gay. In fact, she probably looks at you like her gay brother. Women, in your case - you shouldn't want to hear about HIS relationship problems. That is what he has sisters and/or female cousins for. How can they look at you in a sexual manner after you're the ear for their tears?

Now, that you've let them know that your nuts hang (or your nips hang in regard to the ladies) - its time for action. Most importantly, anything that is always available loses value. Stop being so available. When they call, hit 'ignore' and text them back. Whenever you talk to them, either let them know what you've just got finished doing or are about to do. Be fake busy and watch them want your company. Better yet, start hanging out with someone else of your opposite sex. If you can't do that, just say that you are. Have you noticed that a lot of times people don't let you know they're interested in you until they see you with someone else? This is the logic we're using here. Nova knows.

By now, you should have cut down on how much you supply yourself and increased your demand. Now, when you come around - make sure you look and smell your best. You can't make your long awaited return with the aura of a gym sock. No. Step your fresh up. Wear a new outfit and some new scents even if it's only for a visit. When you see them again, feel out the situation. Don't get caught up in idle conversation. Then, LEAVE. Yes. Leave early. It is always better to under stay your welcome than to overstay it. You've just made a whole new impression.